与他人有不同意见时

Describe a disagreement you had with someone

You should say:

Who you had the disagreement with What the disagreement was

What happened

and explain how you felt about it.

Plan your talk:

Who you had the disagreement with:

(Optional) describe where it happed:

What the disagreement was

(Optional) provide any background information:

What happened:

(Optional) If you said something:

(Optional) If we reconciled:

And how you felt about it:

(Optional) explain who you would support more

解题思路：

通过对题卡进行审题，确定题目考查描述对象是意见分歧，限定成分我和朋友所需时态为一般过去式，过去完成时，过去进行时等·于事件题我们可以从三个部分展开描述，即(1)背景介绍·(2)扣题描述·(3)原因/感受。首先关于(1)青景介绍.可以从该争吵起因进行展开。其次(2)扣题描述，可以从以及中间矛盾如何升级，最后结果的思路展开，然后补充细节·其次阐述想进一步了解到原因，最后表达对物节目的感受·最后从(3)原因/感受两个方面来去描述喜欢节目的原因。其中关于原因的描述我们也可以利用·Cheers原则进行展开，比如社交·Communication,健康·Health,金钱·Economy/money,教育Education,娱乐Recreation/entertainment,.放松Stress/relaxation ·

描述的时候，我们可以借用描述事件或者讲故事的方法，就是事情的起因，以及中间矛盾如何升级，最后结果的思路展开。在题材上，还是有很多选择的，因为朋友之间可能会为了学术问题讨论，而产生分歧，或者有的时候朋友会不小心cross·the:ine，比如关于别人的恋爱关系给出一些意见等。虽然出发点可能是好的，但又可能因为言语不当，而发生冲突·

Sample Answer 1 ：

Okay, there was this time, just a couple of weeks ago, I was having a casual conversation with my friend Lee at a local restaurant, asking her whether it'd be a good idea to apply for an overseas university during the global pandemic. She was saying it'd be a terrible idea since covid-19, you know, has made it extremely dangerous and difficult to travel abroad. She was like, "haven't you read the news? The pandemic is sooo out of control in the rest of the world! China is, like, the safest country right now." what she said really made sense to me, but I stil didn't agree. I argued that this is actually the perfect time to apply for a university abroad. I believed that many overseas universities would introduce good policies and lower certain standards to admit international students, so it'd be easier to get into a university with a good ranking.

Both of what we had said made sense at all, so I was still struggling with whether to apply or not. Finally, Lee compromised. She encouraged me to have a try, because if I succeed, I'd have one more option. That's how we settled the argument.

As for how I felt about this discussion, I'd say it was really fun to see us arguing and also helpful. It kind of helped me to see the bigger picture, to weigh the pros and cons. So yeah, it's nothing personal.

Sample Answer 2 ：

I would like to a talk about a disagreement I had with my friend, Linda. It was last June when we were about to finish the term and started to plan a trip for summer break. However, Linda and I started to have the disagreement about which destination we should choose.

At the beginning, Linda initiated that we should go to some places with natural beauty, like renting a travel van and living in a cottage in forest, so we could basically get out of the busy urban life, spending some days in a quiet environment. Having said that, I felt that our university is far away from the city center and located in the suburbs already. So for holiday, we were supposed to go somewhere busy and bustling, like Shanghai or Shenzhen, where we could enjoy some internet famous restaurants and doing some shopping.

Beyond my expectation, we started to get a bit in our arms, blaming each other for not making any compromise. What was worse was that we started to criticize each other's personality, instead of just focusing on the holiday. Linda felt that I was too into shopping while I thought Linda was too dominating when it came to making decisions for us.

Once and for all, we were stopped by our common friends who separated us into two different rooms to calm down. At the end, after we gained our rational senses back, we chose the van trip as it cost less but we agreed that we would go to some modernized and big cities for our next trip.

Part 3

Question:What would you do if you disagree with someone?

解题思路:

Part3观点题目·题目关键词分歧。答题可以先总结出现分歧的时候，会先认可对方观点，然后再礼貌发表自己的观点，按照分次论证原因·然后从分歧也会促进观点表达进行反转，可以简单列举几个并给出相应的解释或补充说明。

Sample Answer:

For me, if I have a disagreement with someone, first things first, I should acknowledge their opinions, and I would say, you have a point there, that's well and good but, I would express my alternative views on the same matter in a very polite way, which could be acceptable by them. But I think if we have a disagreement with friends, it's good way for us to bounce ideas off one another. So I think it's a very good way to have more discussions with people in a different attitude.

Question:How do we stop an argument from escalating into a fight?

解题思路:

Part3列举类事实题·题目关键词是阻止争吵升级的方法。答题要从冷静和妥协两种不同的方式进行展开，并且分别论证使用的原因，通过多样的论证方式，比如因果，举例等论证方式·逻辑连接词多样使用。语法使一般现在时，现在完成时。

Sample Answer:

There've been all sorts of ways to stop an argument from escalating into a fight. First of all, people need to be calm down. If everybody is in their arms, they should stop arguing with each other. Instead, they should keep silent, listening to calm music, talking about other topics. So they can take tensions and worries away from them. On top of people should learn to compromise if we have disagreements. Each of us should compromise a bit, for the benefit of the other. So in that way, we can get on really well with each other, in order to steer clear of the arguments.

Question:Who do you think should teach children to respect their teacher?

解题思路:

Part3列举类事实题·题目关键词是尊重教师的责任由谁履行。答题要围绕家长是孩子第一任教师，教会孩子遵守规则·并且分别论证使用的原因，通过多样的论证方式，比如因果，举例等论证方式。逻辑连接词多样使用。语法使一般现在时，现在完成时。

Sample Answer:

From where I stand, parents should take the responsibility to teach children to respect their teachers before going to the primary schools. Parents are the first teachers of their kids, so they should be the role model telling their children to show respect. So they should respect their teachers, obeying their rules. On top of that, I think there should be some books teaching children about respecting their teachers. If children read books or stories, respecting teachers, they should imitate to follow the behaviors in the books, which is also an effective way.

Question:What disagreements do parents and children usually have?

解题思路:

Part3列举类事实题·题目关键词是父母和孩子分歧的种类·答题要买玩具和使用电子产品两种不同的方式进行展开，并且分别论证使用的原因，通过多样的论证方式，比如因果，举例等论证方式。逻辑连接词多样使用。语法使一般现在时，现在完成时。

Sample Answer:

To be honest, there are so many disagreements between the parents and their kids. First things first, in terms of purchasing the items, children are attempted to buy toys which the parents might think are useless. So they won't allow the children to buy toys. On top of that, when it's comes to the use of the electronic devices. The children can't control themselves, especially the time spending on the iPad or tablets. So in that way, the parents have disagreement with your kids like, asking children to do something very helpful, like reading, instead of playing games.

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